To quote Maya Angelou, “You alone are enough. You have nothing to prove to anybody.” During the pandemic that we’re all trying to navigate, I’ve been seeing too many people on social media, including some career coaches, saying things like, “if you’re not learning a new skill, or taking an online course, or getting certified in this, that or the other, then you’ve been squandering this golden opportunity of “24/7 stay-at-home time”. Judgmental and short-sighted are a couple adjectives that immediately come to mind.
I come from a different school of thought: it’s most important to make sure we’re taking care of ourselves and doing what we need to do to reach that goal? If that includes taking an online course or learning a new skill, great, but if not, equally great. Everyone is on his or her own journey and dealing with the challenges that come with it. Add an extra layer of a global pandemic and the stresses that come with that. There’s no one-size-fits-all advice that can be applied in this situation, and no shame in not conforming to some other person’s definition of being productive.
And here are 10 more things I don’t need to do, although there are a couple things on the list that I did do, because I wanted to, for me. Some days I want to turn over my to-do list and just focus on the fun stuff totally unrelated to my professional development. I call it being “productively unproductive”. I find that those days are just as important, self-nurturing, and good enough! The bottom line is that happiness and growth mean different things to different people, and the key is to find what works best for you.
Interestingly, the idea of doing nothing has made its way to the University of Fine Arts in Hamburg, Germany, where they have recently created the “Scholarships for Doing Nothing” that will be awarded to three students this September. Now that’s different!